Friday, December 5, 2008

God of the Crossroads

Which hurts you most- a moralising sermon or a spot fine?

Looks like people are happy to pay  fine and get done with it. Facing a sermon and carrying the weight of words is more uncomfortable, if the report in Moscow News are anything to go by.

In what must certainly be a unique experiment, traffic police in the Central Russian region of Penza have enlisted the help of  Orthodox priests to improve traffic safety and reduce the high rate of road deaths When stopped by police, the drivers who violate road safety rules are invited to have a conversation with a priest.

Thus, instead of being fined, they are forced to listen to a sermon by an "on-duty" priest who is there, alongwith the traffic police. This happens in Kuznetsk, a large town in the region of Penza.

"The results have surpassed all expectations", says Sergei Logov, a senior traffic police officer,  "We already can say that traffic accidents have declined by 30 percent."

With justifiable pride, the Orthodox Church  claims that it "has taken a bold step" toward those shunning church services and religious practices.

Looks like priests have their uses.

Thursday, December 4, 2008

Is Happiness a Kind of ESP Effect?

I read this at the New Scientist  about the research results published in British Medical Journal, which reveals that happiness can infect people across three degrees of separations.





James Fowler and his colleague Nicholas Christakis, of Boston's Harvard Medical School, made the connection by mining 53,228 social relationships between 5124 people who took part in a decades-long clinical study.

The data was collected from a study of  adults who took part in the US Framingham Heart Study that was set up to look at the risks leading to future heart disease. This research was conducted in the years between 1971 and 2003. The participants were asked to identify their relatives, close friends, place of residence, and place of work and they were followed up every two to four years. The records were then used to reconstruct and analyze their social networks. There seems to have been periodic psychological evaluations.

The highlights of the study are interesting:-


Your happiness increases

  • by a whopping 42%  if your happy friend lives within half a mile from where you are
  • by 34% if you a have a happy next-door neighbour
  • by 14% if you have a sibling who lives within 1 mile (1.6 kilometres)
  • by 8% if your partner is happy
  •  by about 6% if you happen to know a happy friend of a friend of a friend (a $5000 income increases your happiness by just 2%- "Even people we don't know and have never met have bigger effect on our mood than substantial increases in income", says James Fowler, the political scientist at the University of California, San Diego, who led the new study.)


Fowler and Christakis declare that each happy contact increases a person's odds of happiness by an average of 9%, while an unhappy contact decreases those odds by 7%.

So be happy, know more happy friends- but don't drop your unhappy friends- your happiness decreases by just 7%, but you are increasing his happiness by 9%.

According to the Boston GlobeMartin Seligman, the director of the Positive Psychology Center at the University of Pennsylvania, has called the study "pathbreaking." He has decided to switch his lecture topic for the week after reading this result published in the BMJ. 

"There's been quite a lot of research on individual happiness and its determinants, but there's really been nothing rigorous until this came along about the contagion of happiness," Seligman has stated.

Studies like this are hard to believe, but the general idea that happiness generates more happiness- even people you haven't met can make you happy across the social network is really amazing.

Here is another story!

My son keeps writing stories, and he has filled about forty pages of his note-book with them. He is pestering me to put them in the computer,  so I opened a blog to satisfy him- A few small steps-  and then forgot all about it.


Still he persists, and here is the one I put in his blog sometime back.


I will be posting more of those stories in his blog in the coming days, I feel guilty that I neglected them.


Here goes.



rainforest in the Amazon Riverbanks.

There were thousands of animals in the forests.

One day, a fox came on the way and looked at the animals in the Amazon rainforest. The animals were enjoying a party.

The fox was very jealous. He had an idea. He jumped into blue paint. He put on the tail of an elephant, and its trunks and its ears.

An elephant came and asked the fox, "Are you an elephant?"

"Yes," said the fox, "today is my happy birthday".

All the animals were happy. The elephant gave a chococake to all the animals. They all enjoyed the birthday party.


Then, the fox  felt very sad. He ran to see his mom.

His mom was at home. He asked, "Is today my birthday?"

"No, son", said his mom. "Next week, your birthday will come".

The fox ran back to the party. The fox told the animals, "I am sorry. Next week only my birthday will come".


Moral: We should not tell lies.

Wednesday, December 3, 2008

Britons At Work


Some statistics may be false, and some true- but all statistics is fascinating.

Here is a sexy stat from Britain- I found it in The Week dated 1.11.2008.
  • 92% of all Britons define themselves as heterosexual
  • 4% are homosexual
  • 2% are bisexual
  • 2% don't know (trying out on goats, eh?)
  • 37% lost their virginity before the age of 16
  • 41% between 16 and 18
  • 12% between 19 and 20
  • 8% after the age of 21
(90% of the Britons have gone and done it before our good boys here get to the age of marriage and think about looking at the girls!)
  • The average Briton has enjoyed 9 sexual partners
  • About 20% have had more than 10 partners
  • The senior citizens are more virtuous than the younger set- the 65+ age group average a lowly 6, but those in 16-24 age group already have experienced sex with 9 partners!
  • About 20% of all have had sex at their workplace
75% of Britons are satisfied with their sex lives, and 20% complain that they have a very high sex drive.

Reading all this makes me burn, with envy or indignation? God only knows.

But I can very well understand the angst of the Jihadi who is forced to live in this decadent culture, a dark world of bed-room eyes, and I can very well understand why he wants to blow himself up to escape its snares (What happens later in heaven with plenty of nubile virgins for the taking is none of your business).

But what I don't get is, why is he doing it here in India?- I have friends here who haven't lost their virginity years after marriage!

On the Road

A brown leaf
tumbles along the slipstream...
Lean hour of lunch

Monday, December 1, 2008

"You have to go on with living."



Here is a heartening article I read at BBC.

Ten years ago, Sarah Cornelius was a lecturer who travelled widely and studied international criminal law. She was busily occupied. But when her son, seven-year-old Joshua was diagnosed with cancer, her life took a turn.

After Joshua was diagnosed with a very rare form of abdominal cancer at the end of 2007, Ms Cornelius decided to fill the remainder of his life with travel and fun.Together the pair went to California, New York, Florida, Lapland, Israel and took four trips to Euro Disney - she called it "a whirlwind of living".She realized the benefits it had for Joshua - his energy and constant tan fooled people into not realising how ill he actually was.

And then one day, while she and Joshua sat in the Planet Hollywood restaurant in London, Joshua asked his mother if she could arrange for his friends on the oncology ward in Llandough Hospital in the Vale of Glamorgan to also visit the restaurant. It inspired her to ensure that other terminally ill children have as full a life as possible. This idea became  all-encompassing for Ms Cornelius, and out of her drive,.The Joshua Foundation was born.

She started the charity from her parent's bedroom in Caerphilly.  It has since grown and has a staff of 15, offices in Cardiff and a cafe - Comfortably Numb - in the city centre.The Joshua Foundation also works with 11 paediatric oncology units in the UK and has close working links with two overseas units - Melbourne Children's Hospital and Haddasah Hospital, Jerusalem  This charity, which provides holidays and life-changing experiences for children with terminal illnesses, has gone on to raise over £5m and help thousands of youngsters and their families.

"I think of the way Joshua was when he was ill. I don't want to lock myself away and feel sorry for myself... Joshua was constantly on the go. Now I literally don't have a cut-off point [in my work] on a Friday and start again on a Monday. We have events on all of the time.", Sarah says.
"I learnt to live from my seven-year-old son."

Many of us give in to anger at the injustice of it all, despair and hopelessness, But in Sarah, who has found the way of love that outlives grief, we should find inspiration.

Uncomfortable Questions

Guess who wrote this:

"Initially I wanted to take our politicians for task. I began to write but realised that for them I had only expletives and abuse of the filthiest kind,. I realised that the adjectives that were pouring out for them would never be published. My article would have been a series of "@%*$*%#"

"I leave you with one regret. How I wish the attack on Parliament had been as successful as the one Mumbai had to endure, then I would have thanked the terrorists for ridding us of these "F%$&#$G B#&%@%&S""

This is Tushar Gandhi, founder-president, Mahatma Gandhi Foundation, writing in The Financial Chronicle (1.12.2008), page 11.

I can understand his anger, but I am shocked at the overflow of rage. Would we be better off with all our MPs shot dead by terrorists?

We seethe with anger, and want immediate action, and are voluble about the necessity for change. But see this: just three reports I noted thins week:

I don't set out to be popular, my thinking is, if you want to think independently, you should first of all question your own feelings, your own first reactions. Speak to an individual, never speak for a group. And it is important to ask uncomfortable questions, because if you don't address them, sooner or later, you will have to search for impossible answers.

We seethe with anger, and want immediate action, and are voluble about the necessity for change. But see this: just three reports I noted this week:



According to the the Education for All (EFA) Global Monitoring Report of the UNESCO, India has sustained one of the world's highest economic growths for the last two decades, but in social indicators for child mortality, nutrition and child health, India lags far behind Bangladesh and Nepal with lower levels of income and economic growth. If India had reduced child mortality to Bangladesh levels, it would have had 200,000 fewer deaths in 2006.

About 2,00,000 children die every year, most of them due to malnutrition (46% of our children are underweight)- and no interest in the media, no one asks the Health Minister of whoever to resign, no one wants to kill all the politicians. Why is that?

According to India State Hunger Index published  by the Washington-based International Food Policy Research Institute, "When Indian states are compared to countries in the 2008 Global Hunger Index, Madhya Pradesh ranks between the war and famine ravaged Ethiopia and Chad... In fact India’s rate of child malnutrition is higher than in famine ravaged Sub-Saharan Africa ...more than a fifth of India's population, more than 200 million, the largest in the world, is already hungry"

What is our reaction to this? Do we feel any pain or outrage? Madhya Pradesh fares worse than Ethiopia and Chad! Do we ask its Chief Minister to go? India’s rate of child malnutrition is higher than in famine ravaged Sub-Saharan Africa  What is our reaction to it? More than a fifth of India's population, more than 200 million, the largest in the world, is already hungry- and how do we feel about this?

According to  data  released by the Bureau of Police Research & Development (BPRD), the Indian police force is under-manned, inadequately-trained and ill-equipped. According to Bloomberg, which cites a report of the Institute of Peace and conflict Studies, India has an average of 122 policemen for every 100,000 people. This  is much lower than the United Nations' average of 222  How much do we spend on training each of these scarce policemen, who shoulder more responsibility? A measly Rs 1,975 per policeman every year, that is the all India average. In 2006, governments spent a meagre Rs 12,488 per policeman per month. That includes the salary of the policeman, so you can imagine how little would be left over for anything else..

If you are underprepared in a vital matter such as internal security, the terrorist attack on Mumbai comes as no surprise. Did anyone in the media go hysterical over this? Did we ask for the resignation of the Home Minister, the Prime Minister?

The problem is, the media is obsessed with sensational reporting- and goading us into hysterics.

My suspicion is, these facts are easy to bear because they are not visceral. There is no face to the villain here, but with terrorism, you can put a face and name, so you are interested.

And far worse, these statistics are so boring. If poverty is an art film, terrorism is masala. We want to wage war against terror, but war on poverty? It is so dull and uneventful. Development is a bore, but terrorism- it is spectacular. That is where action is, so we feel drawn in, want to know more and more.

I do't understand people, really, here in India, the mentality of our citizen and media. Or else why do we feel such anguish and outrage over violent events, but apathy and indifference to silent suffering?