Wonder why girls act dumb and boys act as if they know all?
Here is why.
I found this in Pravda:
"Eighty-six percent of men acknowledged that they enjoy sex most if their partner is intellectually inferior to them. Women said that they were more likely to reach orgasm if they had sex with a man who was intellectually superior to them."
(May be that is why we have all those husband-housekeeper jokes. Apparently the woman with minimum education who is good at washing dishes and sweeping floors takes and gives more joy than the well educated and well-heeled wife.).
And there is more statistics, such as:
- The average female orgasm, lasts for 1.7 seconds, for the man it is 12.4 seconds. In a lifetime, an average woman enjoys 1 hour and 24 seconds of orgasm, and the man 9 hours and 18 seconds.
- It is better for a woman to wear socks in bed, her chances of orgasm improve by 30 per cent if she does that. It seems warm feet matters most when it comes to sex.
- A sperm is capable of covering 1.5 metres at a speed of 45 kilometres per hour (that is above my driving speed, which cautious as I am, I control at 40. My sperm has more go than me, it seems).
- And then if you are a man and you are looking for a girl, the dumber she is, the better it gets. 62 per cent of women with higher education have difficulties in reaching orgasm, where mere 38 percent of the secondary school educated girls reported difficulties. In Canada and Germany, an astonishing 70 per cent of women who never studied at high schools reported total satisfaction.
(May be you have trouble believing all this, but my suspicions were confirmed when I read this in The New Indian Express, "Paris Hilton: Gordon Ramsay is Prime Minister of Britain": "The hotel heiress failed to answer correctly when asked to name the British Prime Minister. Instead she said, "I had lunch at his restaurant yesterday- Gordon Ramsay."
I googled Gordon Ramsay and found he owns hotels.
There is much more of such dubious smut here at Pravda.
The inferior woman would accept all that her man gives and does, thinking he knows better and what is what. With no contrary and conflicting thoughts affecting sexual experience it is only expected that such women experience orgasm often.
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ReplyDeleteI was thinking about this phenomenon and preparing for a discussion with some colleagues when I came here and read your post.
I am interested in reading what Balajhi and others think about this subject. Sexuality is a subject that is a mysterious as the functioning of the human brain. And if you ask me, the human brain is sex.
like khushwant answered to how he can write all the porno stuff at near 90s "its all in the mind".
ReplyDeletethe mind will be at ease when it knows for sure that it will not encounter difficult questions. the dumber the partner more relaxation is ensured.
"the human brain is sex"
ReplyDeleteKartikey I interpret it this way, 'sex is in one's mind'. Healthy mind leading to healthy thoughts result in healthy sex life. There are reports in the media that more and more people are not happy with their sex life. Many don't find time to have sex. Their mind is too tired at the end of the day and the day is spent thinking and worrying about various other aspects of life. Sex is a casualty in all this.
Another angle to this is, emancipated women, especially in cities, have a say in their sex life (especially in the way it is done), compounding matters further for the already tired male.
Probably it is time for Indian men to accept this mentally and be open and understanding when it comes to sexual needs of women. When two minds meet on an even keel with a purpose to satisfy each other, healthy sex would prevail and so will women who experience orgasm, raise.
"the dumber the partner more relaxation is ensured"
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True, but the ratio of dumb partners is heading south on the fast lane.
For one thing, I don't trust these 'findings'. There is no source or authority quoted in the original article. That is bad reporting.
ReplyDeleteHowever, I find it interesting how it reinforces our stereotypes.
I remember very faintly a film, Manhattan, where Woody Allen fancies two women. One is a very young girl, who knows nothing. And the other is an intellectual sort of very learned woman. I think that film is an instruction on this whole issue.
It is hard to believe that the Woody Allen type guy will get the beautiful girl, but it seems it happens that way. So, that actress really did say to Bernard Shaw let us get together!
There are really instances- I think Henry miller married merlin munroe... what would have been the attraction, and so on.
Even here, beautiful actresses marry older and past the hill directors...
I think there is some truth in this, but to stipulate that a girl has to be dumb to enjoy sex might seem sexist, but may be feminists would agree with that, I suppose. Someone like Natalie Dylan, for example: who auctions her virginity and says, "Deflowering is historically oppressive" would certainly say you have to be dumb to enjoy it.
And as for Balajhi's comment, "When two minds meet on an even keel with a purpose to satisfy each other"- we are talking about library thing, right?
Meeting on an even keel, is not advisable here- it could may be result in a stalemate, I think...
I wonder if it is the same with men as well....the more educated v less educated? Then the stats could begin to acquire some interpretive value towards level of education. :)
ReplyDeleteAnd I'd like to add....it is a mistake to generalize dumbness. A poor IQ or dumbness in one aspect of persona may not mean another cannot be well developed or even highly developed.
ReplyDeleteThen, sexual IQ could burst through the roof and yet co-exist with high or low IQs in other aspects.
And I agree...no meetings on even keel.
Now we know what sells! 9 responses so far (including this) for this post! Kudos Bas!
ReplyDeleteIs socks not advisable for men too? It could double the joy right?
As SB hints, I think its one of the partner's willingess to submit that makes the experience enjoyable. Sumbission may imply either compassion, or lack of knowledge, but either way it helps the person accept and relish.
Dislaimer: I don't have first hand experience with the subject yet (its a brutal world!).